Woman Sex Toys
Peter James

Well, watching a woman please another woman is up there too I guess. In today's world of fast food, debit cards, it isn't so surprising that a woman enjoys pleasing herself. This is a fast high tech world. Woman are working as many hours as men these days. They don't have the time to go out and search for the guy who will lay them once and ruin their lives. There are many reasons why a woman would want to masturbate. Just like there are many reasons why you masturbate. It doesn't take much thought to figure it out. Most men don't understand the female body.

The clitoris has to be stimulated for maximum pleasure. The clitoris is much like the head of a penis. Could you imagine having sex with only your shaft? That wouldn't make for very enjoyable sex.

A few hundred years ago it was common for a woman who had a strong need to go to a doctor and have him masturbate her. This was done because it was their belief that a horny woman could lead to bad things. It wasn't healthy to have sex more than once per week.

These doctors usually spent up to 50% of their time masturbating women. That had to be some job. Could you imagine getting paid to masturbate women? I would work overtime every chance I got.

This shows something bigger though. It shows that most men don't know how to please a woman. I'm not saying that sex once a week is enough, but I think you know what I am saying. If you lived back in this era and your woman had to go to the doctor to have an orgasm, you are doing something wrong.

Being that most men can't please a woman, a vibrator isn't a bad choice. Actually their doctor will tell them to use a vibrator. It is good because they can control the orgasm better with one. This comes in 'handy' if your partner can't please you.

Some women don't want the hassle of finding a mate. They use sex toys in the same way that men use escorts. They figure that it isn't worth their time to find a mate, so why bother? The sex toy is easier and quicker than what a man can do. They can make themselves have an orgasm in half the time a man can give them one.

Another aspect is that they don't want the risk of disease. This might be more prevalent than you might think. Regardless of how good the sex is, it isn't worth dying over. This is a valid reason why any man or woman would masturbate. No one wants to run to their grave. Most prefer to waltz.

Some women don't want the risk of having a baby. With all the asshole men who don't take care of their children, I don't blame them one bit for this one. In today's world, it is hard enough to make a living for yourself, let alone several mouths to feed. Masturbation helps take away any risk of this and she still gets to enjoy a great orgasm.

One woman told me that a vibrator is everything a man isn't. A vibrator is always ready to go. No need to wait for it to get an erection. It won't leave the house dirty and want you to clean up after it. It won't cheat on you. It won't expect after you are done to make it something to eat. While I had a good chuckle at what she had to say, it is the truth.

Here are three things that men fear about vibrators.

-Female masturbation is wrong. I don't understand how men feel this way, but they do. They jack off, but it is wrong for their women to do so.

-She will become addicted to it. Men fear the introduction of anything other than their penis when it comes to the bedroom. Don't fear the vibrator, love it. Enjoy watching her orgasm like there is no tomorrow.

-She will have no need for a real penis. This happens, but not as much as men fear. Nothing will replace the touch of another human being. Unless their vibrators can cuddle them after they are done, it won't replace you.

Understanding that women have sexual needs is important like understanding you have sexual needs. There is no need to run from it. A horny woman isn't a slut, but just a horny woman. If you have a woman who is horny all the time, don't get bent out of shape. Most men would love to have a woman like yours.

There is another aspect to this discussion. Sometimes we just want to relax and enjoy the pleasure of an orgasm alone. There is nothing wrong with this. Sometimes we just need time to relax and be alone. This is a great way to get the stresses of the day off of our shoulders and relax.