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When to plant that first kiss? Most of us men only care about
when we will get some action for the first time, let alone a measly
kiss. This is where we make too many mistakes with women. If you
aren't out to get a quick piece of ass, take it slow. You should be
able to tell if you are going to get laid quickly. If she has screwed
more than two of your friends, you know you will get her in the bag
quickly. Often times though it isn't that easy. We want to rush
things. If the girl is sweet and she takes over your heart, then there
is no reason to make things move to fast. Instead, enjoy her company.
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So you want to be able to keep your
date past the first kiss hey ?
Follow
our guide to some good simple steps...
The
mistake most men make is that they think they should get a kiss on the
first date. In my experience this isn't true. I think that if we rush
in too fast, we will end up scaring her away. Think of it like you are
in the woods hunting a deer. If you go in too fast, you will make too
much noise and you will scare it away. If you do that, you will end up
with no delicious deer meat to fill your stomach. Instead you go in
slow. You walk slowly so you don't make too much noise. You scan the
landscape to make sure there is no deer in the area before moving on.
If you see that there is no deer, then you slowly creep up to your
next waiting spot. You know if you do this, you will eventually get
that deer. When you get that deer it will be the most joyful feeling
you ever had. You will eat the meat for days to come and enjoy it like
it was your first bite.
Your first kiss should be the same way. You should be just like you
would be if you were waiting for the deer. Don't push it too fast, or
you will scare it away. What is the hurry? If you hurry too fast you
will scare her away. Would you run up behind the deer in the woods?
No! You would creep up to it and be patient. You know if you are
patient, you will get your kill. You have to understand her way of
thinking. Without understanding how a woman thinks, you will end up
putting yourself in a bad situation. Ever wonder why you aren't
getting laid? Here is one of the reasons.
Unless she is a crazed slut, she has to be careful. In this day and
age of rape and violence towards women, she has no choice. It could
save her life. A woman today has a real reason to be afraid. You can
pick up any newspaper and almost every time read about some violent
act that has taken place on a woman. She is smart, she is protecting
her safety. We are taught from a child to stay away from strangers.
Unless your date is your sister, then chances are she doesn't know
much about you. If you are going on a date with your sister, I'm
afraid I can't help you out. You need professional help.
From day one she has been told to be leery of men. She has been told
to watch out for men who might want to rape her. Don't fool yourself,
this does effect the way a woman thinks. Take it slow. If she is the
southern bell type, it maybe a few dates before you get that first
kiss. Don't put too much pressure on her to kiss you. If you are
having a good time on your dates, keep it up. No reason to ruin a good
thing, right?
If you aren't enjoying the dates and you are just out to get in her
pants, you must be one horny fellow to keep going on dates with her. I
would consider why it is that you keep going out with her. If you
don't enjoy her company and you are just trying to get some action,
either you haven't had any for awhile or you have issues. No one in
their right mind wants to per sue someone they aren't happy with. Take
it slow. Don't worry about that first kiss. If you end up working too
hard for it, you will scare her away. If she is a real catch, then you
don't want to do that. All you will be doing is swimming in circles
looking for the next fish. Instead, use body language. That will help
you get that first kiss. Do it softly, don't over do it. That is worse
than trying to jam your tongue down her throat.
Look into her eyes when you talk to her. That will send the message
that you enjoy what she has to say. Give her that look that tells her
that you are interested. Smile often when you are together. Look
happy. This will show her that you enjoy her company. Ask for a hug.
Sometimes women are more adapt to giving a hug than a kiss. To me,
this can be better than a kiss. If you give her a nice tight bear hug,
you will get to feel her boobies. Make sure if you do this you aren't
wearing tight pants, it would be embarrassing for her to see you with
a hard on.
All in all, just go slow. There is no reason why you have to hurry. If
you enjoy her company, you have all the time in the world. If rush too
fast you won't get that first kiss, if you take it nice and slow,
there will be many more kisses in the future. |
